afternoon Love note

Dear Sarah and Chris,

It’s been two weeks since we left you with our brains filled with information and our hearts touched by your kindness. Matt and I are still gushing about that day. We deem it the “mind shift day.”  2010 is the year of big happenings and if you must know, you were part of my 101 in 1001. Yes, clearly written in ink on a journal page dated January 2, 2010, are the words: #43: book a consultation with Sarah Rhoads.

If I can be even more honest, we were not mentally nor emotionally prepared when you two walked into our hotel room. Minutes before, I was frantically trying to clean up and Matt was making sure all the equipment was in place.  That said, the room was cleaned hours ago, and our equipment set out the night before. I knew that we were just nervous and were finding things to do so we could keep it together. I also knew that nervous was a good sign. Big changes never come easily nor without that somersault feeling in your stomach. I know because three years ago I packed my belongings into my Honda, drove through the Nevada desert, into Utah, up the Rocky Mountains, and landed in Colorado. I was beyond nervous. Hysterical at times even. Two months later, I met Matt and BAM! the universe fell into place.

So, we nervously (and happily) waited for you. When the knock finally came, we gave each other the deer-in-headlights look. I kinda panicked. “Oh my god, they’re here,” I mouthed to the room. And then you…you…danced into the room and I knew from that big grin on your face that it was going to be a great day.

Within two seconds the universe fell into place.

I think the most important thing I learned that day was not lighting or posing or workflow. Though all very important, the one thing I took from you two was to be kind to people. I am a people watcher, and that day I noticed little gestures of kindness towards us. Sarah craning her head back to listen to us speak in the car, Chris retrieving my notebook when I accidentally left it. Meeting you two was the affirmation I needed that kindness is the attraction. That you can be “rockstar” photographers but still have your egos in check. Thank you for your wealth of knowledge, for welcoming us into your home, and for your kindness.

Love,

Chatti

P.S. If ever you get a cat remember that a) a shelter cat makes the best companion, b) keep it inside, it’ll live longer, and c) if you don’t change the litter it will find a place to pee. Say, the bowl you left on the counter or worse, your bed.

P.P.S. Hi Stella!

P.P.P.S. I’ve enclosed some pictures of Rose and her Matt, the darling couple we shot with you. Can you tell her to please send her clothes and hair over to me. The eyeshadow too. I like it. = )

Sailing to the Moon

Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.” -Andre Gide

A little over a year ago, we started our business. It was a slow process. We started with nothing but the idea that we wanted to share our vision. Matt and I were both in school, both had part time jobs, both had a lot on our plates. So taking on the business was a risk. We’ve had good days and bad days. On the bad days, when we had self-defeating thoughts, the one thing that pushed us to keep going was our passion. We believed, and still do, the law of attraction, the power that positive thought will manifest positive things.

A little over a year ago, I made a game plan; 5 things I wanted to accomplish in the first year of business. I wrote them out on a piece of paper and tucked it nicely in my journal. I look at it often, especially when I feel unaccomplished or down for various reasons. I’ve completed most of the plan (have yet to surpass Matt in Photoshop). The goal that I am most proud of, the one that I am so glad I included was “to surround myself with encouraging and positive people in my journey.” In the beginning, we knew no one in the industry. We admired people from afar, went on other photographer’s blogs and ate up their photographs while beating ourselves up for not being like “them.” But eventually, we met many great photographers and wedding vendors. We surrounded ourselves with like-minded people, people who got “it” and we love them and they love us. We came into our own, so to speak. We know who we are, where we want to go, and we’ll make it.

A little over a year ago we took a risk and it was worth it.

Photos taken by Sarah Rhoads. I’ll be sharing about our mind shift mentorship in the morning.

Sarah + Derek

I wanted to share some pictures from a wedding I had the opportunity to shoot with Ashleigh of Ash Marie Photography. Enjoy!

by Matty Blue Eyes

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I said “Put down the Meat” and he said, “Nom, nom, nom…”

We have a secret we’re willing to share with you: We love food. That said, our diets are quite different. Matt loves his meats, barely touches his vegetables, and really likes his coffee in the morning (hence the french press I bought him for Christmas). I hate pork, thinks chicken tastes funny, will defend asparagus even if it makes your pee stink, and prefer my herbal teas over coffee. Good restaurants for us mean meals that feed both our diets and make for some happy (and round) Matt and Chatti.

When we travel we think more in terms of food and like to gravitate to where the locals eat. Before we left for our trip to Portland, I made an itinerary based on where we would be eating. Before we even dumped our luggages off, we made a lunch stop at this very colorful Cuban restaurant called Pambiche. Matt had his meats and I ate my fish and veggies. Yummy plantain bananas. I’m hungry now.

P.S. If you really want to try some good organic food, go to Farmer’s Cafe, where we had a cute date. I even convinced Matt to try a veggie burger and he said, wide eyed and all, “Veggie burgers aren’t suppose to taste this good!” Welcome to the other side buddy.

Straight out of camera. I love the 35 1.4L.

He’s eating in this picture. Notice the chubby cheeks and the balding guy in the background. Classic.

Portland, Day 2, Cannon beach

The rain is not going to deter me from finding a way to move to Portland. Matt needs convincing but perhaps a summer trip where he can go kiteboarding at Cannon Beach will be enough convincing.